This word is never easy. Loving someone is hard, especially someone you dislike or doesn’t mean anything to you.
But one thing that my roomie brought up yesterday after watching Fireproof, “You will never learn how to love until you learn the love of Christ.”
Remember my so-called debate with TJ over some issues previously? I continued reading on Joshua Harris after I finished watching Fireproof 2 days ago. Just the urge in my heart again. I stopped after he decided not to read it in the end and I got fed up. But as I read on, I realised what I mentioned previously about holding hands (it is a desire), hence I believe God is trying to tell no matter what a desire is still something not so good. Please couples out there, this is just about my own conviction, nothing to do with whatever you and your partner is doing.
And on some issues, especially on some submissiveness part, God just opened TJ’s eyes when He showed him the part He wants him to read that wife is not to just submit joyless and blindly. From there onwards, he was pretty much ok to hear some stuff that he is not into it. I guess of all, learning is a process, so as love.
